It seems as if lying has become prevalent these days and frankly I am sick and tired of it.
Often I wonder if those who spread rumors, blatant falsehoods, blasphemy, and innuendo will ever feel that same injustice coming back to them.
For the record, the act of lying, also known as prevarication, refers to the act of deceiving other people by providing untruthful stories and statements. Experts say that lies are classified into 15 categories, which include dissembling, perjury, bluffing, fabrication as well as exaggeration. There are various reasons why do people lie. To know the reasons, it is important to explore the psychology of lying, which is very essential to learn the etiology and effects of prevarication.
Why do people lie? Many psychologists agree that lying can start from childhood. There are various reasons why children make false statements. They usually tell untruthful stories to cover up the mistakes that they have done in the past. Lying is also a way to avoid receiving punishments from parents. If parents fail to reprimand their children from making up false stories, then there is a possibility that they will continue to lie during their teenage years.
Teenagers lie because they want to be accepted by their friends. This is the main reason why they create stories that are not true just to become presentable and acceptable to other people. In most instances, teenagers tell untruthful statements to avoid criticisms from their families and friends.
As teenagers grow, lying becomes one of their habits. Their knowledge on making up untruthful stories becomes more developed. Unfortunately, children who lie become adults who lie and it becomes more difficult to place trust in individuals such as these.
People lie in workplaces if they fail to meet the deadlines and if they fail to accomplish and do their tasks efficiently. Some of the common lies made in workplaces are getting sick and having emergencies at home. The danger involved in frequent lying is when it becomes a character. Frequent prevarication causes the development of the condition known to psychiatrists as pathological lying or mythomania.
Mythomania: The Pathology of Lying
Mythomania, also known to some people as compulsive lying, is a mental health condition, which is associated to individuals who have the urge to tell untruthful statements. Patients suffering from mythomania are obsessed with lying. They make up stories about everything and anything. These individuals lie to meet the standards of other people who they want to please.
Mythomaniacs deceive other people because it gives them an unexplainable pleasure. One of the best ways of treating pathological liars is to help them tell true statements and stories at all times. This may be hard for them but as they are accustomed to it, they will start to realize that they will be more accepted by their families and other people if they will stop from making up false stories.
Unfortunately, I know several in that last category and is all the more reason for us to pray and pray often. While I hate the sin, I can still forgive and still choose to love the sinner.
So for all those who chose to continue down this path–you may fool the masses, but you will never fool the Holy Spirit. I still love you and pray for you and hold out the hope that you will return to the ways of the Lord